Includes bibliographical references and index.

I pledge allegiance to myself and the united state of my sexuality -- Your sexuality and your body: an owner's manual -- The problem with perfect: body image: or, why appearance isn't all it appears -- Sex starts with you: arousal, orgasm, masturbation, and fantasy -- So much more than either/or: gender identity and sexual orientation -- You, me, and everyone else: big outside influences on your sexuality -- On board the relationship -- To be, or not to be sexually active -- Popular mechanics: the ins and outs of sex with partners -- Safe and sound: safer sex for your body, heart, and mind -- Harm's way: abuse and assault (and what you can do about them) -- To be or not to be pregnant: contraception -- Oh, baby (or not): reproduction and reproductive options -- How to change the world (without even getting out of bed)

As a teen or emerging adult, dealing with all the changes going on in your life, body, and mind can be mighty overwhelming. When it comes to sex, everyone seems to have strong feelings and opinions about who you should be and what you should (shouldn't) do. How do you decide who to listen to? Heather Corinna and Scarleteen have provided sex education and information to millions of young people, parents, and mentors since 1998.